How can I know if affirmations are working for my child?

Affirmations can be a powerful tool for helping children to develop a positive mindset, build self-esteem, and unlock the power of their mind. But as a parent, it can be challenging to know if affirmations are working for your child. Here are a few signs to look for that can indicate that affirmations are having a positive impact on your child:

1. Increased self-esteem: Affirmations can help children to see themselves in a more positive light, which can lead to an increase in self-esteem. You may notice your child being more confident in their abilities and less prone to negative self-talk.

2. Positive thinking: Affirmations can help children to focus on the positive aspects of their life, which can lead to a more positive outlook on life. You may notice your child being more optimistic and less likely to dwell on negative thoughts.

3. Increased motivation: Affirmations can help children to believe in their own abilities, which can lead to increased motivation. You may notice your child being more willing to take on new challenges and be open to new experiences.

4. Better coping mechanisms: Affirmations can help children to develop a sense of control over their thoughts and emotions. You may notice your child being more resilient in the face of negative emotions such as fear, anxiety, and frustration.

5. Improved behaviour: Affirmations can help children to develop a sense of self-worth, which can lead to improved behaviour. You may notice your child being more respectful, kind, and considerate of others.

6. Protection: A positive system of thoughts will come through when it is needed most. When faced with a challenging or even dangerous situation, affirmations will come to the forefront of the mind. 

It is important to keep in mind that every child is different and the effects of affirmations may vary. It is also important to understand that affirmations are a tool, but they need to be used in combination with other strategies to help children to develop a positive mindset and reach their full potential. Repetition and consistency is key to truly believing in them!

To make sure your child is getting the most out of affirmations, it can be helpful to set a goal together and measure progress together. You can also ask your child how they feel after repeating affirmations and if they feel more positive or motivated. Additionally, you can encourage them to come up with their own affirmations, based on their personal goals and aspirations. This will make the affirmations more meaningful and relevant to them.

Overall, affirmations can be a powerful tool for helping children to develop a positive mindset and reach their full potential. By keeping an eye out for the signs mentioned above, parents can know if affirmations are working for their child and make adjustments to their strategies if necessary.

With love, 

Eagle & Owl